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Katie O'Keeffe's avatar

I read an article this week about a study that tracked children into adulthood and the one thing that was most associated with success as an adult was feeling needed as a child - giving children responsibility to help about the house, with little jobs that make them feel like they are really depended upon for the household! I guess that never leaves us

Deborah Pascoe's avatar

I have a love/loathe relationship with some questions of the kind you set out in ‘Out There’, in particular: “What is it we’re pretending not know” – there’s no coming back from that one – it cannot be unasked..

‘Depended Upon’, Euroa and its war memorial reminded me of Richie – my much loved father-in-law, also from country Victoria (Maryborough, population around 5,600 in 1939), who at 17, fudged his age so he could enlist in WWII and went on to see 5 years of active service. In 1942, separated from his battalion and lost on the Kokoda Track for three weeks, surviving on grass and water, he came across what he thought was a dead body. He kicked it over and a bloke looked up at him and said “Richie, wouldn’t have a smoke on ya wouldya?” It was his mate from Maryborough. Richie carried him back to safety and they both survived the war. What men like this sacrificed… some their lives, others something of themselves for the rest of their lives.

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